Omniswami - Life, Family, Parenting, Tips & More

Answers. We all want answers. People often say that “sometimes there are no answers.” I do not believe that. There are answers, but they often elude us, much like old memories lacking the necessary recall stimuli.

I made the mistake of venting with my mother about some of my recent day-to-day stresses. It’s not easy being a single parent. Was I looking for sympathy from her? Yeah, kinda’. Okay, maybe not sympathy, but a little empathy would have been decent.

It’s crazy, the force with which your heart can pull you. Sometimes a logical, reasoning mind is no match for a heart that yearns. Why is it so? What is heart (not in the biological sense), really? Heart is only emotion, but where does this emotion come from?
Without knowledge (mind-work), [...]

My ex-wife and I have known that our daughter would probably have some anxiety issues. In fact, we’ve known the probability was pretty good for about 5 years now (since our daughter was about 3 years old).

This post is intended to help the middle-aged guy who is just getting reacquainted with the dating scene. If you are starting out again, fresh on the dating scene after being married and subsequently divorced, these will help you.

Some Borderlines walk out and you’ll never hear from them again. With the Borderline Waif, this is even more true. For this reason I truly thought that now, seven months on, I would never hear from my BPD ex-girlfriend again. I am completely shocked that just the other day, she hoovered [...]

Much of the anxiety and worry kids experience stems from changes in the home environment. Since my divorce one year ago, many things have changed for my kids.
Gone are the days when mom and dad occupy the same home. The home we did share as a family is also gone. [...]

Is there really a ‘right’ way to break up? I believe there is, without a doubt, a right way to break up with someone. Telling your soon-to-be-ex-significant-other that you ‘need space’ or ‘a break’ from the relationship to avoid the truth is lame.

BPD treatment options appear to be limited. BPD is a behavioral disorder, and though it may coexist with a mental disorder, BPD treatment must focus on learning new behaviors.

The list below is not ordered by level of importance. Also, it is not the ultimate truth; not every Borderline Disordered person will exhibit all of these traits. Please understand that these are generalizations based upon my direct experience with an ex-girlfriend who undoubtably had Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).