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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by BillRob5</title>
		<link>http://www.omniswami.com/35-dating-tips-for-men-over-40/#comment-1718</link>
		<dc:creator>BillRob5</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 03:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is good, sound, no B/S advice.  I can tell the tips come from real-life experience and your honesty comes through.  I always considered myself a bit of an &quot;expert&quot; on these matters (they call me the grandmaster and colleagues have been telling me for years to write a book as a result of continually pulling of the seemingly impossible--...but that&#039;s another story) but you did say one thing that I actually never even considered (at least no consiously anyway): #33 Dont pay for everything.   Interesting, while some women have paid from time to time, I have never really given it much thought or &quot;tracked&quot; it, and now that I thinking it through, maybe I HAVE been paying a bit too much!
Anyway, good stuff overall.
The only thing I would add is:  &quot;BE selective, and understand that you CAN be selective.  Your time is valuable and there&#039;s no need to waste it &#039;settling&#039; for certain women who do not meet your &#039;physical attraction&#039; standards&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is good, sound, no B/S advice.  I can tell the tips come from real-life experience and your honesty comes through.  I always considered myself a bit of an &#8220;expert&#8221; on these matters (they call me the grandmaster and colleagues have been telling me for years to write a book as a result of continually pulling of the seemingly impossible&#8211;&#8230;but that&#8217;s another story) but you did say one thing that I actually never even considered (at least no consiously anyway): #33 Dont pay for everything.   Interesting, while some women have paid from time to time, I have never really given it much thought or &#8220;tracked&#8221; it, and now that I thinking it through, maybe I HAVE been paying a bit too much!<br />
Anyway, good stuff overall.<br />
The only thing I would add is:  &#8220;BE selective, and understand that you CAN be selective.  Your time is valuable and there&#8217;s no need to waste it &#8216;settling&#8217; for certain women who do not meet your &#8216;physical attraction&#8217; standards&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by dug</title>
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		<dc:creator>dug</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Aug 2011 20:58:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Holy Crap!  I was sure what the disorders were so I googled them.  My wife is leaving me and she has &lt;b&gt;both&lt;b /&gt; these disorders.

I do not want to get divorced and am working on making myself a better person, but when one person wants out the other is out of luck.  Tougher is our 4 kids are stuck in the middle.

Thanks for the blog and the inside advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Holy Crap!  I was sure what the disorders were so I googled them.  My wife is leaving me and she has <b>both<b /> these disorders.</p>
<p>I do not want to get divorced and am working on making myself a better person, but when one person wants out the other is out of luck.  Tougher is our 4 kids are stuck in the middle.</p>
<p>Thanks for the blog and the inside advice.</b></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Bad Breakup &#8211; Breakup Reasons by Erika</title>
		<link>http://www.omniswami.com/i-need-some-space-or-we-need-a-break/#comment-1701</link>
		<dc:creator>Erika</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 21:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am very pleased with the quality information you provide on The Bad Breakup – Breakup Reasons – - OmniSwami - Dating .... I am sure many individuals just like me will benefit by reading this information. I will make sure to bookmark this page.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am very pleased with the quality information you provide on The Bad Breakup – Breakup Reasons – &#8211; OmniSwami &#8211; Dating &#8230;. I am sure many individuals just like me will benefit by reading this information. I will make sure to bookmark this page.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by chelsea</title>
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		<dc:creator>chelsea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2011 19:07:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello,

I am the content director at datingsite.org, where I post all kinds of information regarding online dating advice and reviews. For the past few months I’ve been collecting various resources on midlife dating, and I’ve just posted my list of the Top 25 Midlife Dating Blogs that I encourage my readers to visit. Omniswami is included, since I always find your articles to be very informative and useful. You can check out the full list at http://www.datingsite.org/blog/2011/top-25-midlife-dating-sites/?preview=true&amp;preview_id=1173&amp;preview_nonce=f7000c568a and please don’t forget to tell your readers about it ;) Please let me know if you are interested in a guest post or a blogroll exchange.

Regards,

Chelsea

chelsea@contentventurenetworks.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello,</p>
<p>I am the content director at datingsite.org, where I post all kinds of information regarding online dating advice and reviews. For the past few months I’ve been collecting various resources on midlife dating, and I’ve just posted my list of the Top 25 Midlife Dating Blogs that I encourage my readers to visit. Omniswami is included, since I always find your articles to be very informative and useful. You can check out the full list at <a href="http://www.datingsite.org/blog/2011/top-25-midlife-dating-sites/?preview=true&#038;preview_id=1173&#038;preview_nonce=f7000c568a" rel="nofollow">http://www.datingsite.org/blog/2011/top-25-midlife-dating-sites/?preview=true&#038;preview_id=1173&#038;preview_nonce=f7000c568a</a> and please don’t forget to tell your readers about it <img src='http://www.omniswami.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Please let me know if you are interested in a guest post or a blogroll exchange.</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Chelsea</p>
<p><a href="mailto:chelsea@contentventurenetworks.com">chelsea@contentventurenetworks.com</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by Top 25 Midlife Dating Sites &#124; DatingSite.org</title>
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		<dc:creator>Top 25 Midlife Dating Sites &#124; DatingSite.org</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Jan 2011 18:22:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Omniswami – This article has 35 great tips for men 40 and over. This blog features helpful life tips, relationship information, parenting tips, and reviews that will hopefully save you money, time, and your sanity. Follow this extensive list and its related articles to help you find the love of your life! [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Omniswami – This article has 35 great tips for men 40 and over. This blog features helpful life tips, relationship information, parenting tips, and reviews that will hopefully save you money, time, and your sanity. Follow this extensive list and its related articles to help you find the love of your life! [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on On Values and Beliefs by Rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 01:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well said! To quote  Kurt Cobain  “I&#039;d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not.”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said! To quote  Kurt Cobain  “I&#8217;d rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not.”</p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by Rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 04:13:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I realize that you mean me no disrespect. 

I had NO prior knowledge of BPD either when my daughter was diagnosed with it  only three months ago. BPD all very new to me as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I realize that you mean me no disrespect. </p>
<p>I had NO prior knowledge of BPD either when my daughter was diagnosed with it  only three months ago. BPD all very new to me as well.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by Dan (OmniSwami.com)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan (OmniSwami.com)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 03:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Rose,  

I hope you can understand my perspective...  I had NO idea what I was getting into with my exgf.  I had NO prior knowledge of BPD.  She left me in tatters; I was at an utter loss as to what happened.

The &quot;no good at all&quot; portion is a bit harsh and a bit transparent into my bias, aye?  I guess I should clarify that statement and what I intended by it...  My exgf was not &quot;no good at all,&quot; in fact, she was a beautiful person much of the time.  Unfortunately, from the perspective of dating and relationships, she wasn&#039;t at all capable of reciprocating love in a reasonable way.

That being said, I do have to remember those in your situation as well, and I truly mean you no disrespect.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rose,  </p>
<p>I hope you can understand my perspective&#8230;  I had NO idea what I was getting into with my exgf.  I had NO prior knowledge of BPD.  She left me in tatters; I was at an utter loss as to what happened.</p>
<p>The &#8220;no good at all&#8221; portion is a bit harsh and a bit transparent into my bias, aye?  I guess I should clarify that statement and what I intended by it&#8230;  My exgf was not &#8220;no good at all,&#8221; in fact, she was a beautiful person much of the time.  Unfortunately, from the perspective of dating and relationships, she wasn&#8217;t at all capable of reciprocating love in a reasonable way.</p>
<p>That being said, I do have to remember those in your situation as well, and I truly mean you no disrespect.</p>
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		<title>Comment on 35 Dating Tips for Men Over 40 by Rose</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ouch ouch on number 24. I know you have your reasons for saying that, but it appears a tad harsh.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ouch ouch on number 24. I know you have your reasons for saying that, but it appears a tad harsh.</p>
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